Everyone said the School Anti-Bullying movement in 1999 was a bad idea, but didn’t know exactly why. They were all right, the anti-bullying movement was a bad idea and we know why now. The bullying went from wet willies and shoulder shoves in the hallway, to blame gaming lawyer training in the counselor’s office.
I know, because I help youths with various troubles as I online game. They thank me, and follow the ways of love more because of me. I inspired many to fight on instead of give up in life to many degrees over many people. The thing they all have in common is that the blame game is rampant, far more rampant that I saw.
We literally trained an entire generation to be weasel mouthed devil lawyers who are trained how to pin things on others. Blame game was the original sin in the garden. The devil tricks Eve, Eve tricks Man, God sees. Man should have fessed up,”My bad”, but instead blames Eve, Eve blames the devil. The Bible doesn’t say who the devil blamed… That exercise is meant for the reader. PS: The devil’s name satan means accuser.
Long story short, a lot has changed as we entered this sort of dystopia of lies people have accepted. False science here, social media censoring you everywhere and in the same breath saying,”Nothing goes on that we don’t tell you about, or let you know, and anyone who says such a thing is wrong.”… Just know the blame game leads to upset colleagues, don’t blame others, that leads to more blame game and more people getting upset. Man up. Say,”My bad”. People who accept their mistakes can roll on and get admiration from others, ask any of my soccer friends, I said “My bad” so much, they laughed non stop and we had the absolute best team comradery I ever saw ANYWHERE!
Why do people back stab up the corporate ladder? Someone blames them, they fear they lose their job and not support their wife and young kids, they play games back, suddenly everyone hating and tramping their way to the top. Unless you instill “My bad” culture into your corporate system, home system, sports, clubs, church…. unless you do that, you’re gonna get a system that falls into blame game and then hate and harm and hell follow. Heck, to avoid that, it is worth that if someone blames you for something you didn’t do, keep rolling with it, who cares, better to diffuse hate that way then push it on others.
Matthew 5:43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.