I responded:

A biblically based woman can approach a man she thinks is man pretty and go,”Hey, tell me what you think about Jesus.” It gives him a chance to show if he is truly a man, and nothing wrong with making the first move. Lots of Christian dudes secretly crush on women who secretly crush on Christian dudes, but no words are ever spoken and they go their separate ways.

A woman was interested in what I said. So I continued:

Yeah, when the whole submission comes in, don’t let a guy bully you around either. A good guy leads like Christ, empowers you, cares what you want to achieve in life. Remember the woman at the well went from the most shamed woman in the town to the woman of the most honor in the entire region. Jesus Christ empowers women. It’s good to let a man lead, but first make sure that man is worthy, and wants you to take you some place you want to go, ya know?